We decided to stay overnight one night in Philly (complements of Martin's folks - thanks!) to spend some more time with family and to see a little bit of the city. So the day after the memorial service we went downtown and took a tower tour of City Hall. It was only $10 for the four of us to go up to the top of City Hall. We also walked around and had lunch at Reading Terminal Market before heading home/napping in the car.
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Being tourists in Philly
We decided to stay overnight one night in Philly (complements of Martin's folks - thanks!) to spend some more time with family and to see a little bit of the city. So the day after the memorial service we went downtown and took a tower tour of City Hall. It was only $10 for the four of us to go up to the top of City Hall. We also walked around and had lunch at Reading Terminal Market before heading home/napping in the car.
Great Grandma's Memorial
Friday, March 20, 2009
Lydia's Baptism
We had a little party after church for the family members that were in town. Here's Lydia's cake:
Martin took Katrina and Bob and his parents on a driving tour of DC. Katrina hadn't seen DC since she was a little girl. We all had some great meals together. We had 7 people one night and then 9 the next. I used some recipes from the potluck cookbook that Marna got me for Christmas. Everyone helped and it worked out well. I was a lot less stressed out about the meals that I thought I would be. Giant catered the post-baptism luncheon and we did go out to eat once too so that helped.
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Lydia and her bears
Welcome Back Amy!
Saturday, March 14, 2009
In loving memory
Friday, March 13, 2009
STTN?
Wednesday, March 04, 2009
Lydia and Mommy Update
At my post-partum appointment a couple weeks ago, I was down to 8lbs more than my starting weight which is about where I was at that point with Dylan. However, this time in contrast to last time, my jeans and khakis are not fitting. I can get into my dress pants which have a little more "give" but not my tigher fitting clothes. So the weight must be less favorably distributed this time around. I guess that means I need to do sit ups. I actually did exercise a little yesterday for the first time (aside from some walking I've been doing randomly). I did two 20 minute exercise videos - Dylan did them with me! One was called "Yoga Walk" and Dylan kept asking later to "watch, yogurt." The other was a post-partum video. Both were very un-challenging but I guess I needed to start slow. I've feeling very inflexible right now also so I think I need to prioritize and work on abs and flexibility. But I'm feeling great. Ask me again on April 3rd.
Tuesday, March 03, 2009
Pictures from Lydia's seventh week
Six weeks was a big milestone for Lydia. She started sleeping about 5 hours at night instead of just 3-4, she grew out of her newborn clothes, and she started going longer stretches between feedings. It's been such a blessing. I don't remember Dylan been like this until much later on. It's so manageable now. It was just that first 6 weeks that was really hard. But I guess we're not totally out of the woods yet. I've been told that 3 months is really the peak of fussiness and then of course I still have to go back to work. But right now I'm going to enjoy life and my little girl's wonderful smile!
Monday, March 02, 2009
Dylan update
Dylan is also taking a music class with Miss Kathryn now. So he's learning lots of songs. He really likes Pop Goes the Wessel and Ring Around the Rosie. At Christmastime, his favorites were Jingle Bells (Hey!) and Angels we have Heard on High (especially the Gloooooria part). And he still likes his old favorites, This Little Light of Mine and Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. Miss Kathryn always says to the students, "Be my Echo..., Ba Ba..etc." Dylan likes to say that, again with the same inflection in his voice as Miss Kathryn.
In the last few months Dylan has finally learned the opposite of "no." He started out saying "okay" and now has a clear "yes" but most of the time it's "uh-huh." We're working on getting him to "yes" more often. Other things we are working on - not saying "shoot" or calling Mommy and Daddy by their first names. Not sure where/how he picked these up.
Dylan must have a great sense of direction. He knows exactly where we are when we are driving in the car and usually guesses where we are going based on where we are whether it be Bushra's, church, Oliver's, Richie's, CVS, the gym, or the gaygound (playground). He will even tell us which way to turn ("turn left!") and gets upset if he thinks we are going the wrong way.
Dylan also has a great memory. He often talks about things that happened in the past. Particularly if they involve other kids, dogs (like Murphy and Puff - even though he was scared of him), his grandparents, or Mommy and Daddy's single friends (Mister Jonathan, Mister Mike, Miss Amy, etc.) He also remembers very well the day that Lydia was born - he remembers that Pap Pap couldn't open the door to his house when he went home to his house with Grandma and Pap Pap. ("Pap Pap, door, stuck.")
We try to capitalize on this great memory by trying to get him to memorize the children's catechism and answers to other questions like "who's the president?" I've found that kids love saying the name "Obama." We've also taught him "who's the secretary of state?" to which he replies "kin-ton." He's got the first three questions of the catechism almost down now. However, when I start asking the questions he replies with "own gooooory....aaaall tings." Basically, he jumps the gun by answering question #3 and then #2. At least now when we ask how old are you, he says "two" and not "God."
Dylan continues to be a great big brother to Lydia. He always asks to hold her (making sure to get the burb cloth from us beforehand). He shows Lydia his toys and often asks where she is or gives us a status report as to what she is doing. I'm amazed at how quickly he has accepted her as part of our family. He hasn't once asked to take her back to the hospital or put her back in Mommy's belly.
Dylan is also really good with names. He knows every Thomas train and every Cars character. He remembers names of people too.
We have used the Thomas characters to our advantage in trying to get Dylan to eat. As you probably know, we've struggled his whole life to get him to eat more. Sometimes we just don't know how he has the energy to be so active when he eats so little. Everything I've read/heard said there's nothing to be concerned since he's perfectly healthy so we're not terribly concerned, I guess just more annoyed. One thing we do to get him to eat more is to say "take a bite for" and then proceed to list every Thomas train we can think of. It has actually worked really well to get him to eat at least a little more. But I'm still basically spoon feeding my 2 year old. It would be really helpful if he could be a little more cooperative in the eating department so Martin and I could have more peaceful dinners (i.e., get to finish our meals) but maybe we are just expecting too much.
Last summer I remember talking to Laura B about the "terrible twos." She said someone asked her how to tell when your child reached the terrible twos. She said "you'll know." At the time, I couldn't say for sure Dylan had but shortly after that conversation, I remember thinking "we're there." Here are a few of the signs - demanding that he wears a certain bib/PJs/shirt (you name it) especially when it's in the washer and you can't let him wear it; making sure that the milk sippy cup goes on the left side of his tray and the juice sippy cup goes on the right; dumping toys out; trying to boss Mommy and Daddy around (Mommy sit here!); etc.
I already blogged about Dylan's sleep habits, so I won't say anything more about that except that the tent is still working great!
Even though these days are said to be the terrible twos, we are thoroughly enjoying them because Dylan is so fun and talkative and outgoing and smart. He is such a delight.
Here are some recent pics of our big boy:
Studying different train track configurations. He set these pictures out in a row like that himself.