Lydia is on her way to one. She is crawling more and faster and getting into more, but not nearly like Dylan did. That may have to do with the fact that when Dylan was crawling we were living in a 950 square foot condo and so there was more in the living room to get into. Lydia likes to crawl with one foot on the ground, her right. It's quite funny looking but she's gotten pretty proficient at it. Lydia can walk with assistance - while holding our hands or holding onto the push toy she received from Grandma and Grandpa as an early Christmas present. We expect her to walk soon.
Lydia is eating mostly all finger foods these days and she has four more teeth to help her. She does not like to be spoon fed - she would rather do it herself. This has been a common theme and thus she is proving herself to be quite independent. She can take a shirt off of her head once I get her arms out and she can get out of her straps on her car seat once I unbuckle them. Dylan is just learning these things. Her independence makes me a little nervous because I don't want to encourage the independence too much in our kids - I think we as individuals are too independent in today's society to our own detriment. Of course I want my kids to be able to do things for themselves but not to the point that they would refuse help. Dylan is independent in a much different way. He's adventurous and (what's opposite of cling-y?). That makes me nervous too. Dylan still wants us to do a lot of things for him, which at this age, he should be doing for himself. So basically, I want Dylan to dress himself but I don't want Lydia to think that she can dress herself. And I do wish Lydia would let us spoon feed her more so that we could get some cereal and apple sauce and the like into her but I have to admit, it is pretty nice to just sit some food in front of her and just let her go at it. We were spoon feeding Dylan until he was 2 and even now we still have to help him at least a few bites of food into his mouth before he's off again.
Lydia thinks Dylan is hilarious. They have a lot of fun together. She was cracking up at him hiding behind her high chair and peeking around at her. Besides laughing and smiling lots, Lydia is starting to babble more. She also says ma-ma, sometimes even when looking at (referring to) me. She says ah-da for "daddy," "dylan," and "all done." I think she does the signs for more and all done, usually just mimicking us. She and I have puckering up contests to see who can make the loudest pucker. I love those bonding moments that happen despite her not being able to talk. But soon we will have two little jatterboxes.
Lydia is still a pretty good napper in the sense that she's easy to get down to sleep. I wonder if kids are either easy to put down or easy to wake up. Lydia seems to have a harder time waking up and wants to nurse when she wakes up from her nap. Dylan was the opposite - he was hard to get to sleep and once he woke up, he was ready to go. Lydia will sleep, on a good day, for an hour in the morning and two hours in the afternoon. Even on a bad day she usually gets at least 2, half hour naps. She sleeps at night from about 7:30 to 6:30 but she wakes up about twice during the night still. Usually around 3 and then 5. I've tried feeding her before I go to bed at 10 and that seems to work sometimes. I've also tried not feeding her at 3 and that was hard getting her to go back to sleep but it worked until she got sick or we were traveling and then it was back to the drawing board. Maybe after her birthday we'll try again.
I've already started transitioning her to cow's milk. I wasn't pumping enough to give her 3 full bottles during the 3 days she's at daycare and I ran out of my stash back in October. So since she was gaining weight at a good pace and I new she was getting enough milk when she was with me (including those middle of the night feedings) I just started adding water to her bottles to make up the difference. Starting in December I started adding cow's milk and she has done fine with it. I figured if she was digesting all those finger food, she could handle the cow's milk. She'll get all cow's milk at day care starting after Christmas vacation and her birthday (which means I don't have to pump anymore!!!!!!!!!...!!!!)
Lydia is the only one in our family to get the H1N1 vaccine so far, due to availability. I think she already had H1N1 but they still recommended the vaccine. I'm hoping she will get her second dose when she goes in for her 1 year appointment on the 8th. Our pediatrician and my work have been getting the vaccine in drips and drabs. I'm not that worried about it to go to wait in line at the government center to get them so we're just waiting for our doctor to get them. Dylan and I received the seasonal flu shot this year - first time for both of us. My thinking is that now that there are four of us to pass things to each other, we need to take some more precautions. Lydia also received the seasonal flu shot but she still needs the second dose. So maybe by the time the height of the flu season gets here we will have all of our shots.
We enrolled the kids in 5-week swimming classes in November/December. Lydia was really clingy at first and sucked her thumb the whole time but is getting better. She's okay with it but it's thrilled. I just want the kids to keep up with their swimming so we don't have to start from ground zero every Memorial Day. I don't think we'll do another class in the spring though - we'll just take them to the indoor pool every so often. And the music class that we did last year is on one of my work days so we won't be doing that - but I talked to Mrs. Kathryn (she got married this year!) and she said that she is going to have a short 6 week class in May on Tuesdays that both Dylan and Lydia and participate in so we are going to look forward to that.

